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say no to good things // so you can say yes, to great things

Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Debbi DiMaggio
my life coach, ned kraft, shared these words with me one day while we were sitting in union square. as i listened, and repeated his words, i knew there was great truth in what he said.
we get so bogged down every day with our schedules, our children’s schedules, an assortment of appointments, invitations, community service projects, errands, events, fundraising, shopping and so much more.  many times we feel we have to say yes, yes, yes.  but truly what we should say is — yes — to really great things and allow ourselves to say no, more often.  it is very hard for me to say no, how about you?  do you say yes without consulting your busy schedule and your already over-committed life?
continually doing what is not working and always saying yes to everything, is what keeps us from saying yes to great things.  it is okay to say no, try it — with no excuse or feeling bad.  it is okay to turn away business or an invitation that doesn’t feel right, fit your schedule or that doesn’t appeal to you.
once you close one door, another door will open …. be aware of opportunities coming your way …. be ready to see, receive and accept these gifts
xoxo!
debbi

a student perspective // the best advice for freshmen // go buffs!

Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Debbi DiMaggio

our first family weekend october 2011

“it’s coming, it’s coming,” grandpa yelled.  what’s coming?  grandma questioned.  photo:  grandpa doing the wave — for the first time!!  

really, what’s not to love?  a beautiful campus nestled beneath the flatirons and a campus reminicent of an italian village.  stunning.  simply breathtaking.

the best advice for freshman

reprinted from the CU Parent – Parents Supporting Students University of Colorado, Boulder Newsletter

i thought it was worth reprinting this article to share with college students, parents of freshman, upcoming freshman parents and college students who i’ve heard sometimes question, why?  why did i go to college?  for what?  i don’t know what i want to do.  i hope this provides some perspective or another perspective as it did for me.

by Caitlin Hoffman, senior, French and humanities, orientation leader 2010-2011

In my experience as an orientation leader, I work closely with incoming freshman and their families and on a daily basis I am asked the question, “what’s the BEST advice you could give a new freshman?”  Well that’s tough — there are so many new aspects to college life that it’s hard to pinpoint just one piece of useful advice.

However, after consulting my very wise and seasoned friends, co-workers, and peers for their sage bit of advice, if there were one thing they wish they had known as a freshman, this is what it would be:

College is all about change, new experiences, new perspectives–embrace them!  Find your go-to place to study– it’s okay if it’s not the library.  You’re in the driver’s seat now, but with more freedom comes more responsibility, so be accountable.  Drink water, and lots of it.  It’s okay to change your major once (or twice or four times); one class can change your mind.  Recycle. Step outside your comfort zone and try new things, it’s the best way to make memories.

Wash your hands.  Start off strong academically, your GPA will thank you later.  Your CU (college) email is your lifeline to the university, check it often.  Dorm rooms need to be cleaned more often than you think.  Go to office hours.  Think of and embrace new problem solving skills.  Sit in the first two rows of a class whether it’s a 20-person seminar or a 400-person lecture, your instructor will recognize you.  Dining hall food is better than you think; if it gets old, get creative.  Stress happens; find the best way for you to manage it.  Don’t lose your syllabus.  Keep a working resume, and work on it.  Embrace nap time, 20 minutes can make you feel like a champ.

One piece of advice that resonated among all “gurus” consulted was to get involved.  Finding something you’re passionate about and getting involved in it will change your life.  A good friend put it perfectly, “Seize the day, because there will never be a more perfect time to do so than in college.”

reprinted from the CU Boulder Parent Newsletter as stated above.

XOXO!  debbi

wildwood elementary school // many years ago

Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Debbi DiMaggio

Wildwood Elementary School – Many Years Ago

i was inspired to post this blog to commemorate the newly updated and beautiful Wildwood Elementary School, my alma mater.

you are viewing our 6th grade class at Wildwood Elementary and PHS class of 1982

can you find me?

can you find scott hill or is it kent hill?  one of the hill twins is definitely in this photo.   scott, kent and i have been friends since kindergarten and we still see many of the faces pictured in this class photo.

back in the day, Wildwood ( our school ), Havens and Beach Elementary Schools all started in Kindergarten and went through the 6th Grade.   Wildwood was the medium sized school, Beach being the smallest and Havens double the size.  we were the WILDWOOD WINNERS and Coach Humphries ( the current Piedmont High School PE Teacher ) was our elementary school PE teacher.  and Rich was our janitor.  ( he recently retired from PMS in 2011 the same year our son Chase and Scott’s son Skip graduated from PMS )   we played 4 Square at lunch and at recess and after school bruised our wrists at tetherball and we all wore white Jack Purcells.

our last year of junior high came one year early for us.  we spent the 7th and 8th grade in Piedmont Junior High as our 9th grade year was the year they switched things up in Piedmont and moved us upward and onwards from the junior high to the high school the same year as the class of 1981.   we went from being 8th graders in the middle of the pack, sandwiched between the 7th and 9th graders and then went back down to the bottom as we entered PHS as lower classman – 9th graders.   they separated us from the upper classman as our building and red lockers were located down below the main campus where the Millenium School is now.

two things stand out most

in the 7th grade i got glasses.  i will never forget putting my glasses on and looking out from the second floor balcony of the Piedmont Junior High School in awe.  i just never knew the sky was so blue and the buildings and bridges were so beautifully defined and clear.  it was  truly incredible.

the second was in 9th grade when i got a perm.  gosh only knows why i did that.  but just like everyone else, you want what you don’t have, right?  well i got it.  curly hair.  boy did i get it.  i walked through the double doors, down the long red hallway wearing my FROSH Cheerleading outfit ( i was head cheerleader – so you could have guessed ) and everyone knew ( even without the convenience of Facebook ) everyone knew i had gotten a perm and that i hated it.  as i recall, scott and kent were the first to see me and to tease me.  i’ll never forget it.

and now, they work for me!

( actually, we all work together at HIGHLAND PARTNERS, but that was a good punch line, don’t you think? )

the teasing was all in good fun.  i have always had the ability to laugh at myself.  it was at that very moment when i first learned and clearly understood the phrase —  “and it too will pass”.  i knew my hair would grow out and all would be okay.

we have to remember to share that simple phrase with our children, our clients, our family, friends and colleagues.   so much is happening out there in the world today and in our own lives, but we have to remember and remind —  “it too will pass”.

xoxo!

world class ski destinations // winter wonderland

Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Debbi DiMaggio

Welcome Back !   We hope you had a wonderful, relaxing holiday with family and friends.   XOXO!

As always, the season kicked off on December 1st with parties and celebrations, shopping and over-indulging, dining out, office parties, gift exchanges and perhaps a trip to the sun or the slopes.  Like many Northern Californians, we too spent some time in Lake Tahoe over the holiday.   We drove up on a crystal clear blue sky day and by day 3 it was truly a Winter Wonderland.   Our son, Chase spent a full day snowboarding at North Star while Adam, Bianca, Mindy and I began our holiday with a long, leisurely lunch at Moody’s Bistro and Lounge in Truckee followed by a YOGA class and a STEAM at the Club at Lahonton.  Driving was a bit scary in this Winter Wonderland but the vistas were certainly SPECTACULAR!  It was a beautiful, awesome sight.

Discovery:  The slopes and parking lots at the Village at North Star were jam-packed so we headed upwards to the Ritz .  As we wound up the mountain, past the gondola drop off point just beyond the trees, out of nowhere, this magnificent hilltop resort oasis errupted – it was so dramatic – it was as if we just popped into a Harry Potter novel.  It surely came out of nowhere.  When we entered the double doors of the Ritz Carlton it was bustling with people lounging by fireplaces, reading, talking, eating lunch and sipping cocktails and cocoa at the lobby bar.  Set on multiple levels with dramatic windows facing the ski slopes just beyond, the views were so stunning, we immediately knew we would be back to ski or just lounge.  Bianca and I turned towards one another and started planning our next trip!  It surely is a must see!  We all enjoyed a relaxing afternoon and an amazing lunch – We highly recommend it!  Later I learned  that the Ritz Carlton Residences and Resort is Lake Tahoe’s first 5 Star Base Camp Resort.

As always, with every wonderful experience I enjoy, I feel compelled to share my resources and recommendations with you.   Below the photograph you will find a list of Ski Destinations and links.   Lake Tahoe is just a 3.5 hour drive from the East Bay and Utah is a great alternative – just a brief 2 hour flight from Oakland and a quick 45 min shuttle to a variety of world class ski resorts.  If you’d like a personal recommendation for you and your family just give me a call.   I’d be happy to share my experiences with you so you can make glittering memories of your own.  XOXO! Debbi

World Class Ski Destinations

Tahoe Luxury Rentals  www.tluxp.com

Lake Tahoe   www.visitinglaketahoe.com

North Shore Lake Tahoe   www.gotahoenorth.com/resorts-and-towns

South Shore Lake Tahoe   www.bluelaketahoe.com

Ski Lake Tahoe   www.skilaketahoe.com   www.skilaketahoe.com/area/information

NorthStar   www.northstarattahoe.com

Ritz Carlton Residences /  Resort – Lake Tahoe’s First Five Star Base Camp   www.theresidencestahoe.com/

Squaw Valley   www.squaw.com    www.thevillageatsquaw.com

Alpine Meadows   www.skialpine.com

Sugar Bowl   www.sugarbowl.com

Heavenly Valley   www.skiheavenly.com

Utah – Park City, Solitude, Deer Valley and more – Ski, Skate, Hike, Bike

Just under a 2 hour flight and a 45 Minute Shuttle to each Resort from the Airport

www.skiutah.com     www.parkcityinfo.com

Ski Lake Tahoe or Utah – Contact Debbi or Adam to learn more about each resort and which one is ideal for you and your family. 510.414.6777 debbi – 510.414.1250 adam.  www.debbiandadam.com

highland partners // proud to support the skyline lacrosse scholarship program

Tuesday, December 7, 2010
Debbi DiMaggio

Skyline Lacrosse Scholarship Program

The HIGHLAND PARTNERS are proud to support the SKYLINE LACROSSE Scholarship Program.  SKYLINE LACROSSE is a dedicated group of parents, volunteers, mentors and coaches who support and teach our children through team work while encouraging each child to work towards their personal best at each practice and at every game.  Over the years I’ve watched the kids grow and mature and become stronger, better players and I can’t wait for the kick off of the 2011 season!  It’s an exciting, heart-wrenching, fast-paced game.  The kids are all amazing!!  GO SKYLINE!!

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